Wants & Needs Questionnaire


5 points


What are your wants and needs in a love relationship? Choose the three most important items from the list below. Can you choose only one? (What does your partner choose?)

Submit a one-page essay in which you describe your choices and the reasons for them.



I want someone to...

Love me

Confide in me

Show me affection

Respect my needs

Appreciate what I wish to achieve

Understand my moods

Help me make important decisions

Stimulate my ambition

Look up to

Give me self-confidence

Stand by me in difficulty

Appreciate me as I am

Admire my ability

Make me feel that I count for something

Relieve my loneliness

Support me and our children

Accept my need to be self-sufficient and independent